|Church helps, comforts, kids in poor Berlin neighborhood
Dec. 11, 2006
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Meetingpoint program provides care for children in the poor
neighborhood surrounding the Evangelisch-methodistiche Kirche,
Salemgemeinde, in Berlin.
A UMNS Feature
By Lilla Marigza*
On a playground in
Berlin, about 20 children jump rope and take turns on the swings. The
youngsters of varying ages are a noticeably close-knit group, and
volunteers explain that the kids spend more time with one another than
with their own families at home.
"People realized there were many children living the whole day just on
the playground. Their parents make them leave the house in the morning
and don't let them in again until early evening," says Ann Christin
Puchta, who runs an outreach called Meetingpoint sponsored by the United
Methodist church across the street.
The Kindertreff Delbrücke program was founded in 2001 by the
Evangelisch-methodistische Kirche, Salemgemeinde, to reach out to kids
in the poor neighborhoods surrounding the church on Delbrücke Street in
the Berlin-Neukölln area. "Kindertreff" translated means "meetingpoint."
The congregation noticed the children and brought jump ropes, toys and
cookies to the playground.
The daily program now offers craft activities, nutritious snacks and
homework help to children from poor families who don't get much support
"There are many families where the parents don't care for the children
and the children rise up feeling that they are not wanted, that nobody
cares for them. There are some families that say to their teenage
children, 'I hope you can be 18 so I can throw you out of the house,'"
What the children often want most is for someone to hold them and talk
to them, she says. "Many of the children have a deep lack of love,
interest, comfort ... and we try (to see) that they get it here."
Some here are German Christians, but a large number are the children of
Turkish Muslim immigrants. Their families live in this neighborhood,
where unemployment is almost 30 percent.
Bishop Rosemarie Wenner
"More than 100 children are involved in the program," she continues.
"The Methodists are bridge-builders in Berlin-Neukölln, where the gaps
between cultures and faith groups are significant. I am very thankful
for the ministry in the Salemchurch"
Problems at home
Government benefits provide food assistance, but sometimes the children
go hungry. Volunteers cut up apples and vegetables so the kids will have
something to eat during the day when they are shut out of their homes.
At home, the children are often exposed to abuse. Puchta explains that
the children sometimes have a hard time adjusting to the rules at
Meetingpoint. "They are used to violence in their life. They learn that
if you have a problem, you beat each other up and that's OK. ... We have
a rule here: no violence -- no beating, biting, no pushing. And it's
hard for them to learn this, but they learn and they like it."
Working with kids hardened by a tough life at home and on the streets is
not easy. The volunteer staff has to set boundaries -- and sometimes
must ask children to leave the program -- but it is always done out of
"For the first time in their lives, they are wanted, they always get
another chance," Puchta says. "They may get thrown out, but they will
get another chance. That's really new for them. "
One of the Meetingpoint "regulars" is a 1-year-old girl. The parents
send the baby out with her two sisters during the day. Neither sister is
old enough to care for the baby all the time, so the job falls to a
10-year-old girl from the neighborhood who enjoys playing mama to the
toddler. Meetingpoint coordinators say this is what the program is
about, fostering caring relationships between people of different
Building trust, understanding
Immigrants are a growing and not always welcome population in Germany. A
common stereotype, which links the religion of Islam to terrorism, has
led to distrust between predominantly Muslim immigrants and native
Germans. Meetingpoint is an opportunity to nurture understanding among
these youngsters and their families.
Volunteers created a game where the children read verses out loud and
then guess whether they came from the Quran or the Bible. Children
realize some verses could have come from either book, and the
similarities surprise them.
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this neighborhood playground in Berlin, unattended children are cared
for by members of the nearby Evangelisch-methodistiche Kirche.
In another activity, children see artifacts that might be found in
either a church or a mosque. The kids have made drawings of
stained-glass church windows and mosaics such as one might see in a
Holidays are a further opportunity for education. "The Muslim children
for the first time really understood why we are celebrating Christmas,
not that we do it but why we do it," Puchta says. "And for the Christian
children it was interesting to learn something about Ramadan, for
Recently, women in the neighborhood prepared traditional Turkish dishes.
Others cooked German meals to share. Simple activities like these are
building bridges of understanding between cultures.
The relationships have been a learning experience for the children and
for church members. "What we have learned is that a lot of the
immigrants who have come here have a very hard life. ... We learn about
this through the children," explains Evangelisch-methodistische Kirche
pastor Holger Sieweck. "When we get to know the persons and their
problems in their lives, we can't help helping them as a church."
A changing society
Like many urban churches, the 100-year-old Berlin congregation has seen
its mission change with the neighborhood. Longtime church members have
moved away, and many of the city's new residents are immigrants. Society
as a whole is changing as birth rates drop among native Germans. By
2020, it is estimated that 80 percent of kids who are grade-school age
in Berlin will be the children of immigrants, mostly Muslim.
Dwindling attendance has meant less financial support for the church,
but Siewick says the congregation must continue to reach out to the
community to grow and to serve people regardless of their religious
affiliations. "It is our mission as a church to help these people, even
if it is hard for the church to do this work."
Meetingpoint receives some funding from a partnership with churches in
the United States, but there is not enough money for a full-time staff.
The program relies on volunteers from the church congregation. Even
Puchta, who is the full-time director of the program, is paid for only
14 hours a week.
Puchta says her mother worries and often asks her why she stays, when
she could easily pursue a better job. "I can't leave the children
alone," she explains. "For some of these children, we are their only
chance at a better life."
She takes odd jobs to pay her bills and says helping the children at
Meetingpoint is more important than having a comfortable life for
herself. These children of many different cultures from broken homes
have become like a family, and Puchta wants to keep them together.
"I'll struggle for as long as possible (so) that I can stay here to work with them and help them ... and love them."
*Marigza is a freelance producer in Nashville, Tenn.
News media contact: Fran Coode Walsh, Nashville, Tenn., (615) 742-5458 or firstname.lastname@example.org.
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