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By Linda Bloom*
3:30 P.M. EST April 8, 2011
Laura Draughon Kirby(second from left) joins other United Methodist
deaconess candidates during a commissioning service at the Interchurch
Center chapel in New York. UMNS photos by Cassandra Zampini.
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Sitting in a church pew one day, Laura Draughon Kirby realized she
wanted to merge her work-related passions and talents for social justice
with her religious commitment.
On April 7, the 42-year-old Asheville, N.C., resident and nine other
deaconess candidates, along with one home missioner, were commissioned
in the chapel of the Interchurch Center, home of the offices of the
United Methodist Board of Global Ministries. Shown in a live webcast, the event was part of the spring meeting of United Methodist Women.
The United Methodist Book of Discipline defines deaconesses, who are
laywomen, and home missioners, who are laymen, as “professionally
trained persons who have been led by the Holy Spirit to devote their
lives to Christlike service under the authority of the Church.”
A native of Atlanta and former Presbyterian, Kirby joined the
denomination in 1993 when she married Lem Kirby, whose father was a
clergy member of the denomination’s North Carolina Annual (regional)
Conference. She and her husband, a physician, have three boys, ages 9,
12 and 14.
About four years ago, the same time she started work as development
director for the Western North Carolina AIDS Project, Kirby attended a
“discernment weekend” to learn more about the deaconess movement.
Participating in such an event is the first step toward commissioning,
explained Becky Dodson Louter, the executive in charge of the board’s Office of Deaconess and Home Missioner Program.
An applicant “must demonstrate they are in a ministry of love, justice
and service,” she said. “They may serve in a church-related vocation …
or they may serve in a helping profession.” Once an application is
reviewed, “if it seems like it might be the right match, we invite them
for interviews.”
Other requirements include the completion of several courses of study
and a consultation with the bishop of the annual (regional) conference
where the applicant resides.
First to be commissioned as a couple
The April 7 service marked the first time a married couple — Michael
Scott Vickery and Mollie James Vickery of Hattiesburg, Miss. — was
commissioned together. Having Mississippi Area Bishop Hope Morgan Ward
lead the candidates in their vows was “a special joy for them and for
her, I believe,” Louter said.
Participants in the deaconess commissioning service lay hands on Omega Lee S. Ramos of Dallas.
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For the Vickerys, both working as special-education teachers, the
decision to pursue such vows originated in a call that both had felt
much earlier in their lives. “We really struggled finding our place as a
couple … and the calling that we left behind,” Mollie Vickery, 36,
explained. “It was kind of a critical moment in the life of our family.”
She attended a January 2009 discernment weekend and immediately felt
drawn to the deaconess movement. Her husband, 35, felt the same pull
after his discernment the following October, especially after realizing
he could continue teaching his severe and profoundly disabled students.
He also has started a recovery ministry at their church, Parkway Heights
in Hattiesburg, which now has 130 enrolled. “For me, it’s not just an
internal commitment; it’s an external commitment,” he said.
The Vickerys are now linked to a covenant community called to a vocation of service.
About 350 active and retired people are home missioners, home
missionaries and deaconesses through The United Methodist Church, and
those still active range in age from their 20s to 80s. The movement is
part of more than 10 other denominations, including Lutherans,
Episcopalians and Presbyterians,
all members of the Diakonia World Federation.
Continuing her path from the Philippines
The United Methodist Church in the Philippines
has had an active deaconess tradition, which Omega Lee S. Ramos, 43,
became a part of after graduating from Harris Memorial College in 1988.
The pastor’s daughter and former kindergarten teacher came to the United
States in 2001 with her husband, the Rev. Ephriam Ramos, through the
Bishop W. T. Handy Young Adult Missioners Program with the Board of
Global Ministries. After that program ended, they decided to work as
volunteers in their Dallas church.
Mississippi Bishop Hope Morgan Ward is flanked by Mollie James Vickery and Michael Scott Vickery of Hattiesburg, Miss
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Since 2004, Ramos has served as children’s ministry coordinator at
Umphress Road United Methodist Church, increasing attendance at Sunday
school — called Bible explorers — from three to 50 children. But she
also yearned for the support she had felt from her fellow deaconesses
while in the Philippines. “I want to continue my connection,” she said.
For the Vickerys, married nine years, the commissioning continues what
has become a family affair as both are involved in each other’s work,
with input from their 8-year-old daughter and 2-year-old son.
The family also took a financial leap of faith when Mollie Vickery
decided to leave a tenured teaching position to become executive
director of the Edwards Street Fellowship Center, a food pantry in
Hattiesburg, last June.
Edwards Street was her first exposure to mission while growing up, and,
as a teacher, she saw hungry children coming to school every day. Just
as with the deaconess program, “from the moment I went in, it was the
right fit,” she said.
Kirby — who organized an anti-stigma campaign to raise awareness in the
Asheville area about those with HIV/AIDS in her current job — also feels
the importance of being connected with a community of other people who
apply their commitment to social justice in the name of God.
For her, being a deaconess is a guidepost for her life, “the focal point of staying true to what I view as my path.”
Other deaconesses commissioned on April 7 included Colleen M. Caldwell, a
counselor at Crossroad House in Cabot, Ark.; Gertrude Grace Oden Daily,
a YWCA therapist in the Baltimore-Washington Conference; Pamela J.
Domer, director of special education for the Dalton, Ohio, school
system; and Lucie J. Fortier, an outreach specialist at the Brattleboro
Area Drop-In Center in Vermont.
Also commissioned were Majorie Hrabe, a community organizer for the Pima
County Interfaith Council in Tucson, Ariz.; Denise Krenke Walling, an
educator for mission outreach and evangelism in the Upper New York
Conference, and Cheryl L. Yerkes, a wellness consultant and hospice
volunteer in Lancaster, Pa.
*Bloom is a United Methodist News Service multimedia reporter based in New York. Follow her at http://twitter.com/umcscribe.
News media contact: Linda Bloom, New York, (646) 369-3759 or newsdesk@umcom.org.
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