Charity offers hair, peace for cancer patients
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A UMNS photo by John Gordon Pat Julkowski (right), manager of a hair-loss studio for women, shows a wig to Hair Peace Charities founder Bonny Diver.
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Pat
Julkowski (right), manager of a hair-loss studio for women, shows a wig
to Hair Peace Charities founder Bonny Diver, a breast cancer survivor.
With the help of Ingomar United Methodist Church in Pittsburgh, Diver
started the program to help cancer patients buy wigs not covered by
insurance. The group also provides support such as babysitting and
meals, encouragement and prayers. A UMNS photo by John Gordon. Photo
#06513. Accompanies UMNS story #286. 5/15/06 |
May 15, 2006
By John Gordon*
PITTSBURGH (UMNS)—“Go, Alex!”
Debbie Glatz yells encouragement to her 6-year-old son at a T-ball
game. As Glatz faces the challenges of recently being diagnosed with
breast cancer, she said her family means everything.
“I have to get better for them,” she said.
Besides support from her family, Glatz will not be alone on her
journey through months of chemotherapy and, later, surgery and radiation
treatment. Bonny Diver, a breast-cancer survivor who founded Hair Peace
Charities with encouragement from her United Methodist church, will be
there to help.
“My way of being active to fight cancer is through education and
through helping other women,” Diver explained, “and doing what I can to
attack the cancer that’s out there and say, ‘We’re not going to let this
get the best of you.’”
Hair Peace helped Glatz buy a wig when her hair fell out, a common
side effect of chemotherapy. Diver said most Pennsylvania insurance
companies will not pay for wigs, adding to the financial burden for
cancer patients.
“I knew that that would be one of the hardest parts, losing my hair,”
said Glatz, a registered nurse at a children’s hospital. “It happened
17 days after the first chemotherapy treatment, it started to come out.”
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A UMNS photo by John Gordon Bonny Diver (right) visits with cancer patient Debbie Glatz.
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Bonny
Diver (right), visits with cancer patient Debbie Glatz. Diver, a breast
cancer survivor, started Hair Peace Charities with the help of Ingomar
United Methodist Church in Pittsburgh. The program helps cancer patients
buy wigs not covered by insurance. Hair Peace helped Glatz buy a wig
when her hair fell out a result of chemotherapy. The group also provides
support such as babysitting and meals, encouragement and prayers. A
UMNS photo by John Gordon. Photo #06514. Accompanies UMNS story #286.
5/15/06 |
Glatz called the wig a “big confidence booster.” She said it helps
her four children — Alex, 6; Sarah, 8; Justin, 12; and Jared, 14 — feel
more at ease.
“One day, I just had a hat on without the wig,” she recalled. “My
6-year-old son said to me, ‘Mommy, you look scary without your hair. You
don’t look like my mom. I need you to put your hair back on.’”
Diver, a radio announcer and a member of Ingomar United Methodist
Church in Pittsburgh, offers more than wigs to cancer patients.
“We thought that would be our first initial contact to help women
with getting the $100 voucher,” she said. “By accepting that gift from
us, though, they have to accept our prayers.”
The names of cancer patients are put on a prayer list e-mailed to
church members. Patients receive cards and offers for babysitting and
meals. Church members also make prayer quilts.
A youth group from Ingomar plants flowers at the homes of cancer patients.
“This is a really nice thing to do for people who can’t do it for
themselves,” said church member Sam Sweeney, 14. “It makes you feel
really good about yourself, like doing something nice for someone else.”
Church member Loris Ziener said the flowers brightened her yard—and
her spirits. “They give me that continued hope,” she added. “It’s
spring, it’s that hope, and along with it the beauty of the flowers.”
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A UMNS photo by John Gordon Amanda Hopta (left) and Julie Henderson of Ingomar United Methodist Church plant flowers at the home of a cancer patient.
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Amanda
Hopta, 12, (left) and Julie Henderson, 14, of Ingomar United Methodist
Church, Pittsburgh, plant flowers at the home of a cancer patient as
part of the church's Hair Peace Charities. The program, founded by
breast cancer survivor and church member Bonny Diver, helps cancer
patients buy wigs not covered by insurance. The group also provides
support such as babysitting and meals, encouragement and prayers. A UMNS
photo by John Gordon. Photo #06515. Accompanies UMNS story #286.
5/15/06 |
Diver also provides a listening ear and the guidance of someone who
has gone through the difficulties of cancer treatment. “It’s a fight,”
she said. “It’s the fight that I want to have. It’s the battle against
cancer.”
Diver was diagnosed with breast cancer three years ago. She found a
lump after falling from a horse and breaking her shoulder. Now
cancer-free, she credited her faith with helping her through surgery and
radiation treatment.
“It really was very apparent to me that there was a presence of God
in my life, and that’s why I call it peace, p-e-a-c-e, Hair Peace,” she
said.
Glatz said she looks forward to the day when her treatment is over and she can volunteer with Hair Peace Charities.
“I want to get better and get through this, and help other people
that are going through the same thing,” she said. “Because it’s tough,
but there’s an end to it. And I’m looking for that light at the end of
the tunnel.”
For more information on Hair Peace Charities, e-mail Diver at bdiver1@verizon.net or call (412) 734-5204.
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